Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Honesty, a healthy life style for your soul

Terminology

My own terminology for honesty is

"a reflection of being true to yourself and others by saying or doing things as it is where brain, heart and physical action are fully synchronize in harmony seamlessly." -R-

Honesty & Society

Though in reality honesty somehow really really hard to implement in our normal daily life. Simple example would be how we usually blame the traffic for coming late on any occasion.

However I somehow noticed that in fact "not being honest" at some extend is being accepted as a normal action in society and people just don't give a damn about it. Wanna prove of my point?
  • People know that if someone said "Insya Allah" in Indo, mostly it won't happen yet we were okay with it. Insya Allah is being abuse and use as a more polite way to say "Im not gonna do it" whereas in truth Insya Allah means "If Allah wills". That means its up to God! not us! if you don't wanna do it then said you don't wanna do it. (honesty disease I)
The growing acceptance of not being honest in the society really annoyed and worrying me somehow.
  • How can we form friendship base on lies?
  • How can we form relationship base on lies?
  • How can we form partnership base on lies?
  • How can we do business base on lies?
  • How can we develop country base on lies?

Honesty among Human

Me, myself realize its really hard for being truthful all the time, Everybody has its secret, everybody has its own story. Some want to share everything, some want to hide everything, some hanging in between.

The worst part of human being are the one who talks about others though in matter of fact ITS NOT TRUE AT ALL. I fully understand that human is a creatures born with high degree of curiosity, everyone has the right to seek about things they like the most. In this case, the curiosity to know about what other people are doing. But that privilege doesn't necessarily means that we can invade other people privacy and life by ruining their reputation. Im not specifically said that its all about people who badmouth others, It can work the other way around like you talk about how great one person is where in a matter of fact its lie. (honesty disease II)

"your mouth is your sword, your soul is your sheath. Sheath your sword then peace are upon us, draw your sword then war are inevitable" -R-

Conclusion

Act of honesty from heart is a necessity if we want to succeed now and then. By being honest you are protecting yourself from anxiety, stomachache, heartache, headache and other diseases that may come along when you lie. You better not to say anything at all rather than telling lies. Not being honest even once may lead to another dishonest action or behavior thus you will be trapped in the cycle of dishonesty.

Stay honest, stay healthy mind body and soul. Try this NOW! -R-

Quotes

If you tell the truth you don't have to remember anything. ~Mark Twain

Who lies for you will lie against you. ~Bosnian Proverb

No man has a good enough memory to make a successful liar. ~Abraham Lincoln

A half truth is a whole lie. ~Yiddish Proverb

Those who think it is permissible to tell white lies soon grow color-blind. ~Austin O'Malley

2 comments:

  1. How can we form relationship base on lies?


    wukaakakkakakka, ask me bout it!!!! :)

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