My continuation of existence since 23 years ago allowed me to view broad array of humanly issues (I knew I should took Psychology major). I never said Im an expert (me vs 60 years old gramps? tell me bout it) but the seemingly almost always unique personality for every human funnily can be sum up into one general segmentation called "human habits".
For this time around I will focusing on one of the human habit called Waiting.
I met several friends who likes to wait patiently for anything that they would really like or dream of to happen but simply won't because of this waiting game! Example,
"I took IT subject this semester as an elective and apparently its too hard, but I think I will wait until the end of semester and see whether I pass or not"
This kind of attitude irritates me so bad! seriously, if you think its hard and you know its an elective drop the course and find another one! why wait until the end of the semester? what if you failed?
Another kind of wait I thoroughly saw is waiting for the perfect timing thing. I personally agreed timing is everything. Swift action but bad timing apparently never produce good result. This kind of waiting game have been implemented rigorously in business and it works. What upset me though, this kind of waiting game somehow being made as an excuse for some people to stay in their comfort zone before deciding to make a progress in their life. Example,
"I will quit smoking pot after I finished my uni"
Last wait that I seen is the worst. It seriously fuel my rage and bother me that bad. People who likes to do this kind of waiting game got a serious issue. Symptoms such as complaining heavily about what happen in their life, stressed out so bad but they don't clearly explaining what and why they are stressing out, then they clearly did nothing to fix any of those problems are the major indicators for waiting game called fictional wait. Simply don't want to do anything that's what all about.
Does any of those criteria above somehow resemble yourselves?
I fully recommends everyone to stop waiting! make an action, make an impact in your life because after all you won't live forever. Opportunities only come once, you missed it you will regret it. Stagnancy in life is what you really must avoid. Once you wait you will wait forever.
Quick reminder, we always have a choice. By waiting you practically disregard all the option of life you can do. Hope everyone get my point here. -R-
Wednesday, August 12, 2009
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